Here’s what the internet will tell you…

  • "Happiness isn’t in the future. Happiness and fulfillment are in the present journey of life."

    ~Jerrid Sebesta

young Jerrid as a football player standing on a field, smiling, wearing a dark football jersey with "MONTE" and "FOOTBALL" printed on it, white football pants, and holding a helmet in his right hand. He is wearing gloves and football shoes.
Television weather forecast map showing temperatures across Minnesota with a news anchor standing in front.

Here’s what the internet won’t tell you…

  • Parents divorced at a young age

  • Lived in a trailer home in rural Minnesota

  • Spent summers in Wyoming and Colorado with father

  • Always felt my life was only a bi-product the world’s chaos

  • Struggled with insecurity and became a chronic perfectionist

  • Played college basketball as a walk-on at the University of North Dakota

  • Lived most of my life believing the “next thing” would make me happy

  • Had a high-profile TV job, but rarely felt happy and settled

  • At my worst, felt the world was only getting 15% of me

  • Tried to live in the moment, but felt like I was broken

  • Quit my job and fled to another state during COVID

  • Expanded my family as a result of a “flagpole moment”

The journey from a hustling and bustling career in TV news living in big cities with a demanding schedule to living the quiet life on a hobby farm with a young, growing family has taught me many things. My wife would call it a midlife crisis - she’s funny, but I disagree.

The older I get, the more I look at life and time differently. Seemingly without intentional consideration, I have naturally begun to reflect on my life goals realizing there is a finite amount of time left to get them done. I realized life isn’t to be lived with a “someday” mentality. If I want to have an experience, take a trip, start a business or visit a family member, now is that time. I need to take action.

Happiness isn’t in the future. Happiness and fulfillment are in the present journey of life. However, for that to happen, I’ve realized it means living a life undeferred.

I invite you to join me on this journey.

A family of six, including two adults and four children, posing outdoors in a park during autumn. They are smiling and leaning on a wooden fence, with trees and fallen leaves in the background.
A man in a light green polo shirt is speaking in front of a blurred background with people and a projection screen.